If I could sit down with my younger self—the one who used to believe that style came with a hefty price tag—I’d have a few things to say.
I’d tell her that confidence isn’t about having the newest thing—it’s about loving what you wear. That nobody actually remembers if you’ve worn something twice (or twenty times). And that the price of an item has nothing to do with how good you’ll feel in it.
Style Isn’t About Trends—It’s About You
I used to think personal style was something you had to chase, always staying ahead of seasonal trends to look put together. But the truth? It’s never about what’s “in.” It’s about what feels right. The best wardrobes aren’t built overnight—they’re curated with intention, and filled with wardrobe staples that stand the test of time.
I’d remind my younger self that fashion inspiration doesn’t come from a price tag—it comes from how you wear something. That the secret to great style isn’t about having more; it’s about knowing what works for you.
Secondhand Isn’t a Backup Plan—It’s the Secret to Effortless Style
If I could go back, I’d show her how investing in your wardrobe doesn’t mean spending more—it means spending smarter. How shopping secondhand opens the door to high-quality, designer clothing that once felt out of reach.
Because when you stop chasing fast fashion and start choosing pieces that truly speak to you, your style becomes something deeper. Something that lasts.
my ever first Marni shoes :)
Fashion Should Lift You Up—Not Define You
But most of all, I’d tell her this: You are worthy, with or without the perfect outfit. What you wear should empower you, not confine you. And when you do find that one piece that feels so right? That’s not just fashion—that’s self-love.
So if you’re ready to build a wardrobe that’s truly yours, start with intention. Start with what feels good. And if you need a little help? I’ve got just the thing.
xx,
Elian
